Happy Wife, Happy Life - many of you have heard this simple phrase before. How many of you use this as a filter before you say yes to something? Think of it this way, you are asked to play cards tonight with the boys, do you automatically say yes? Or, do you run the question through this filter? If you play, will it make your spouse upset? Will the fun you have playing cards outweigh a little pain later on? Most of us use this type of decision making tool naturally when it comes to our personal lives. What is your filter in your professional life? Do you even have one?